"Forgiveness is releasing the captive and realizing the captive was you." - RT Kendall
Forgiveness is such a powerful force. True forgiveness causes even the most ungodly person to gasp in amazement. When we give ourselves the gift of forgiving others our own bitterness and anger is lifted and we receive a sense of freedom.
As Christians we have been forgiven of so much. In light of all that God has forgiven us of, should we not be quick to extend forgiveness to others who have hurt, taken advantage of or offended us? In Matthew 18, Jesus tells a parable of an unmerciful servant who owed a debt he could not pay. The merciful master forgave his debt even though it was equivalent to millions of dollars. The servant came across another servant who owed him a much smaller amount. Instead of remembering the mercy he had been shown, he demanded that the other servant pay him in full. When the master heard of this he turned the unmerciful servant over to the torturers. What a powerful picture of what we must look like to God when we hold grudges against people. Is there anyone that you need to forgive in order to walk in freedom? Forgiveness does not mean that what someone has done was ok. It only sets you free from the burden of unforgiveness.